Realistic Optimist Hard At Work

[Just A Guy]

Soooooooooooo, went to the shop today because I needed to do an oil change on my truck... When I was done I went into the office and saw W was reading ILYBINILWY book.. She then proceeded to ask me if I had done any of the exercises in the book. I told her I had done a few but mainly the ones which were directed for solo work. I then asked her if she wanted to do some of the exercises together. She said sure "but it would have been nice to know you wanted to do this sooner"...

WTF does that mean?!?! Yet again something that is my fault?? She felt slighted when I told her about the book at MC instead of to her, she told me I should have let her in on it if it was helping me instead of waiting for the MC session for her to find out.

Now she is putting the guilt trip on me because I didnt ask her to do the exercises??

In my head I didnt share or ask because I didnt want to push or pressure.. She however is looking at it as me hiding things from her and not including her in my emotions/feeling which is what I have done for years to help get us in this mess..

Uggggg....