Going home

[needgrace]

Thanks unbidden, busting, grateful and cadet for your support. I have been sad and numb today but hope that tomorrow is better. I am trying to think of it as another test of who i have become and another opportunity to grow. (thank you zig)

Cadet, I have a question for you... how do i know when it is best to stay dark or to act as if/display my changes? i ask now bc W has some things to drop by the house.. she asked if she should just leave them in the garage bc that is what i requested last time.

i know one of the big qualifiers is probably if i would be able to act as if.... and i would need to think long and hard on that answer... but if i were, how do you know when it is best to do so and when it is best to stay dark?

this question comes up for me bc i was just reading J3B's advice to busting on her bootcamp about showing H her changes and then stepping away...

thank you.