Hopefull2, I would not suggest she see a professional at this time. Don't try to rush the process. She is still trying to work through her issues and she needs to process everything on her own. If she feels comfortable w/the non-expert counselor, then leave her alone.
You can't fix her. She has to be the one to decide if and when she wants to seek out a professional. Keep the focus on YOU.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
