Ok, so an update: She was good with having talks every M/W/F, for half an hour, so that's the plan going forward.
This it to talk about the R? Or just chat? Just chatting is fine, but if this is for R talk then it could be very harmful.
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I forgot to mention above that we've been going to marriage counselling, I think we've had 5 sessions so far. Mostly we've gone over the whole back-story, haven't really gotten much in the way of solutions out of it.
Seriously, 5 sessions just on the "back-story"? You might consider ditching that C right away. A solutions-based C would have spent maybe 15 minutes on back-story before pushing you to focus on the future. Dwelling so much on the past will hurt things, not help them.
