SD, I think i relate to what you are feeling right now.

Its almost like the sitch is at a stalemate. Lots of observing and isn't that interesting, feeling like maybe more could be done, but we know in our heart of hearts, there is nothing right NOW to do, except what we are doing. That doing nothing is actually doing something.

Wanting to hear from them, not just for logistical matters.

I know, that it has put me into a panic several times in the past three weeks. Is this the calm before the storm? Maybe. But j3b said something that stuck..the doldrums of DBing...and then Cadet followed it up with TRUST THE PROCESS.

this is part of the process. We don't know the outcome, but we are definitely in the middle of a process. and we are actively a part of it, even in our silence.

I hope you are doing well. I am happy that you are safe!

Busting.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home