Since my last update, I've had a few interactions with my W. There has been a lot of turmoil on her side of the family. We have a niece that my W pretty close to get arrested and get involved with drugs. I followed up with my W last week to see how things were going and just to let her know I have her and her family in my prayers. She opened up to me a bit. She said she had almost called me late Tuesday night of last week because she thought she was having a heart attack. shocked She determined it was likely an anxiety attack. She does not seem to be doing well at all. frown That being said, sometimes she's able to put up a pretty good facade when I see her.

Update on the D front: My L asked for paystubs about 4 weeks ago and we still haven't heard anything from her L.

Every once in awhile, my S will offer up little tid bits of what's going on on her side of things. Apparently, OM is still in the picture. I don't know what the status is and I don't ask. She sleeps a lot on the weekends. She sent my S into a panic on Sunday because she wasn't responding to texts. Not only did she sleep late, she took a 4 hour nap. shocked

Meanwhile, I continue to live my life. I've been on a handful of group cycling rides, including a couple at night crazy downtown. I ran a 5K with my running group at my church. I took my S to the Trunk and Treat at church and had a great time! I was in charge of one of the games. I'm still going to all my Tuesday night group at my church and my every other Saturday group has started back up. I've been dropping in on my Thursday night Men's group after my group rides, though this week I'll probably be dedicated to Men's group - it's getting late in the season for the Thursday night group rides. I also have signed my S up for basketball, and they recruited me to coach. Of course, once a week I still try to smuggle in Chipotle at lunch at school for my S. Keeping busy. crazy

Tonight is Trick or Treat. It may well be my S's last year to Trick or Treat. frown My S wanted my W to come down for it tonight. I went along with the invite and simultaneously (my S had her on speaker) invited her to come down. I made a batch of crock pot chili this morning for the event. At the very least, I have dinner covered for my S and me and I've garnered some more experience in cooking for us. smile


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26