Hey Tad. I was gone for a bit and will likely be gone from the boards for a bit, but wanted to share something that I ran across a while back.
First, she is trying to hurt/control you and has been for a very long time. You know that and you know why you are staying as dark as possible. Keep that up my man. I told you we have a lot of similarities, you and I
Keep in mind it's not a matter of whether or not she wants to be "friends" or feels guilty or whatever... you know by now she has to work through her own issues her own way. But you can be you regardless. It just takes time and focus, right?
I was asked a little while back to answer a question in two ways by finishing the sentence. Can you? 1) I stay attached to my ex and do NOT forgive her because... 2) I do NOT stay attached to my ex and forgive her because...
Cheers, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
