Still together but trying to save this

[needgrace]

hi fuanacdc,

i got the same speech about being controlling about money. i have realized that there is some truth to it.. but also that i felt responsible for our financial security bc W would abdicate it to me.

she did not want to look at bills, investments, our financial plan... so i ended up feeling overly responsible for our security and she ended up considering me controlling. i get my role in it all and that is all i can do...learn and grow..

btw, sometimes it seems like we are all M to the same woman


((((( )))))))