Kicking a$$ and taking names!

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Snodderly,
I read your post on "why they run" some time ago and it was instrumental in leading me down this path of DB'ing. My W and I have talked about her past and worked through some of these issues with a non-expert counseler. Do you see any value at this point of me trying to talk her into seeking a profesional at this point? She does not trust counselors so she may not even entertain that thought and i do not want to come across as pushing her or not taking responsibility for my share of the M problems. I just do not see her getting through this without a professional that can help her sort out the emotions and internal pain she has buried.

RH sorry for the hijack.. ((( )))