I would die for my spouse to not walk away like you do. I would (already doing) change for the better and understand how to met your needs.
Too bad my W, isn't going to give me that chance. In the last 2 months, all i had to do is remember my priority in life, family before work. Since then, i have went from a good to great dad (where the kids always want to be around me). More attentive to my W feelings and needs (really listening to her). But my work is suffering
Unfortunately W is still moving out and filing the papers, I guess because of the Other Man (so not even sure, if i can define my spouse as a WAW)
Your H is starting to sound stubborn, but we don't know his side of the story. I can see why you are frustrated with his efforts but some of this can be percieved as taking too much notice in his negatives.
Does he have any positives for you? For every negative he has, can you list positives? Or is the positives not meeting your love language and that is why you don't care?
