Snodderly, I just read your post on why they run. Wow, my H has always had ADD and grew up with parents who always put their drinking friends before H and his sisters and at times were emotionly abusive or maybe neglectful.

I have been lurking on this board since Feb and I finally signed up last week...so I posted my story because I know this is bigger than me and I need help, but for some reason it has not posted frown Can someone help me with this?

RH, I've been reading your story and I think your awsome at how you can always show your H your love...sorry to hijack your thread.

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending