You can't fix his R with his children, that will be for him to do. Don't do anything to harm it.

Encourage the children to talk to their therapist about how they're feeling and be open to them sharing with you.

Talk to your therapist about how you should respond to them.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss