WAS vs. LBS

[Soul.Searching]

I could have wrote that list of the thing you don't want him to do. The lying really got to me and mostly it was the pettiest things.
Despite all of the crap, we generally did have a fun relationship. We both love a lot of the same things. We used to go fishing both as a family and occasionally just the two of us. We used to go boating and camping. We used to go on holidays at least once a year, sometimes two and three times a year. We used to go visit friends or go to bunnings and renovate. We laughed a lot. We both have the same sense of humor.
Especially this time of year, we would do a lot. Go to markets, drive around. Even washing the cars as a family. H is really handy too. He Ripped out the bathroom and done everything himself but then we ran out of money, it's still not finished but the main room that is done looks awesome. That man can do a hell of a lot handyman/ renovating wise and he has style.

He also can be very sweet when he wants to be.

These are some of the reasons why I love him so much, why I put up with so much crap. He does so much for other people. He would give away his last $10 if somebody needed it, he would drop everything to help a friend, even a stranger. Just a pity that me and the kids weren't as important as everybody else.

With out these things I think I would have been the WAW years ago. I actually really did concider it a few times. Not for the past few years though.

Everyone that really knows my H says how much of a Jekyll and hide he is.

I don't know CV sounds like a touch sitch. It was those fun times (Even just being at home, we had fun.) that gave me the will to want to stay in our relationship.
He wasent all bad, all the time.

The shoe thing is really annoying! My H's place to leave his was the lounge room floor! Seriously, who does that?

I think you need a holiday. Is there anything you used to love doing together?
You need someway to connect again. Maybe you should have a break from each other somehow. Could just you and S go on a holiday? That way your S doesn't even have to know what happening.