Riding the Bull

[Arsene]

I was pretty sure my comment and follow up question would raise a ruckus, and I wasn't wrong! Thanks for your answers everyone, they make sense. I especially like the point of not setting up an unhealthy, round about communication channel. As always, best wishes Arsene.

Thanks FY. Keep'em coming. I love to see the full range of opinions around here. Each of our sitches are different and therefore call for different actions. Seeing a comment, and it rebuttals is often helpful in the decision process.

AT, all good points mate. The key for now is detachment. Thanks for the different perspective on things and even if W wonders why or how I can manage to do what I'm doing in the given circumstances, IMO it still shows strength. I try to stay positive, I also try not to expect too much of my perception of the ongoing events, because so far, it is just that, a perception. I will try to keep my head down a bit more though. Thanks.

25, I never meant that you had implied W's mates would be checking me out but it's the way I feel. It will likely be a man as W doesn't need a singer and there aren't many female musicians around. It's probably a pianist or a guitarist.

I actually would love to meet her other friends (new or otherwise) as I know that they would wonder why she is leaving me. I just want to avoid possible mates of OM.

CB, you've been telling me for a long time. Don't think I don't listen. I'm just not there yet. Thanks for keeping an eye on me, mate.