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Re: I think I see the picnic! bustingout #2294778 10/31/12 06:19 AM
Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,167 2 2chiquitos OP Member
OP 2chiquitos Member 2 Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,167	Before dinner H said, hey I don't have gas money. How about we skip dinner so I can put gas in the car? Me: Seriously? Why don't you ask your mom for money? (she always lends him money!) H: She lent me money yesterday. Long silence. I wanted to leave! I wanted to say, ok well I'm going I'll see you later. But I didn't. that would've been me feeling sorry for myself so I stood up to the situation and said, I want to go to dinner. More silence. H: ok. Let's go. We went to get tacos. yum and talked about all the same stuff we talk about. work, the kids, money, etc. Before the sitch I used to criticize the decisions he made at work. H said he stopped talking to me about work because of that. When it comes to money, he'll talk about how we should get new cars once I start working again. I listen and validate. Oh yeah that would be great. Old me: What? Seriously H we don't have money for that and I'm not planning on going back to work anytime soon! But now, how important is it for me to express myself? He's telling me his ideas. I like his ideas but I don't have to stomp on them like I used to because they weren't practical. We ate talked and I dropped him off so I could go to my Al Anon mtg. It was nice. No he's not moving back in tomorrow. No we didn't ML and No he didn't apologize profusely. We just chatted. Baby steps... M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017

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I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/13/12 05:17 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Brit45	08/13/12 09:06 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/16/12 05:32 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/17/12 04:34 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	LITB	08/17/12 02:32 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/18/12 05:48 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/22/12 03:07 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	sayitaintso	08/22/12 12:37 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	RoRoinMD	08/22/12 06:14 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/24/12 11:58 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/27/12 01:31 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	08/27/12 04:24 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/27/12 05:35 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Brit45	08/27/12 09:14 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/29/12 05:40 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	08/29/12 05:58 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/30/12 01:31 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/31/12 06:27 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	08/31/12 11:28 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	08/31/12 11:31 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/01/12 06:38 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/01/12 08:41 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/01/12 04:12 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/02/12 06:08 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	09/02/12 04:15 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/02/12 05:09 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/03/12 04:13 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/04/12 01:33 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	09/05/12 02:40 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/06/12 06:27 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	09/06/12 08:40 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	09/06/12 11:41 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/06/12 03:13 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/06/12 10:46 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/07/12 10:24 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	09/08/12 03:04 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/08/12 10:20 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	09/08/12 11:20 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	09/08/12 11:37 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/09/12 05:34 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	09/09/12 06:16 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	09/09/12 01:32 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	09/09/12 03:22 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	09/09/12 03:23 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/09/12 06:40 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	09/09/12 06:50 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/13/12 03:18 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/13/12 03:33 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/14/12 05:11 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/14/12 10:52 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/15/12 01:18 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/15/12 01:20 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	keep_going	09/15/12 01:30 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/15/12 06:08 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/15/12 06:18 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	09/15/12 06:20 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	keep_going	09/15/12 07:01 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/15/12 02:49 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/15/12 03:00 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	09/15/12 11:46 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	zig	09/16/12 04:45 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/17/12 05:09 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/17/12 05:22 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/17/12 05:25 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/17/12 05:27 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/17/12 05:29 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	09/17/12 06:19 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	09/17/12 06:20 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	09/17/12 10:32 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/19/12 05:49 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/20/12 05:37 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	09/20/12 06:22 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/20/12 02:54 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/20/12 02:55 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/20/12 03:32 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/21/12 09:55 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/21/12 10:20 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/22/12 11:24 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	NLW	09/23/12 12:41 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	LITB	09/23/12 02:38 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/23/12 02:56 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/23/12 04:05 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/23/12 04:12 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	09/23/12 09:57 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/23/12 05:02 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/25/12 05:13 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	09/25/12 05:19 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/25/12 05:27 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/25/12 05:31 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	LITB	09/25/12 05:50 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/25/12 06:38 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	LITB	09/25/12 02:50 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jbnati	09/25/12 03:42 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/25/12 07:34 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	09/26/12 05:26 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/26/12 01:46 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	09/26/12 02:19 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	09/26/12 08:14 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	09/29/12 03:48 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/02/12 05:53 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/02/12 01:17 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/02/12 03:12 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/02/12 06:59 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/08/12 08:28 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/09/12 05:41 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/09/12 07:26 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/09/12 01:35 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/09/12 04:39 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/09/12 05:33 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/09/12 05:46 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/09/12 06:03 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/10/12 04:09 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/10/12 05:30 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	10/10/12 06:56 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	hopefulinga	10/10/12 11:13 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	10/10/12 03:21 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/10/12 05:23 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/11/12 04:41 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/11/12 05:31 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/11/12 05:18 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/13/12 06:41 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	eyesopen	10/13/12 07:04 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/14/12 12:36 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/14/12 12:40 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/14/12 03:29 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/14/12 03:31 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/14/12 05:32 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/14/12 01:30 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/14/12 06:47 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	10/15/12 02:08 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/15/12 04:12 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/15/12 05:18 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	10/15/12 08:28 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/15/12 02:15 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/17/12 06:45 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/17/12 11:12 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/17/12 03:39 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/17/12 10:47 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/18/12 12:24 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/18/12 12:44 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/18/12 05:43 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	jks	10/18/12 05:51 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/18/12 06:18 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/19/12 05:04 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/19/12 05:13 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/19/12 05:15 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/19/12 01:59 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/19/12 02:02 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/19/12 04:14 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	keep_going	10/19/12 07:36 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	10/20/12 01:52 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/20/12 06:14 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Soul.Searching	10/20/12 06:54 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	10/20/12 03:29 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/20/12 05:16 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/20/12 07:15 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/21/12 03:39 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	unbidden	10/21/12 03:42 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/21/12 05:15 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	longrun	10/21/12 09:47 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/21/12 10:44 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	10/21/12 12:48 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/21/12 03:15 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/23/12 04:39 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/23/12 05:11 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/23/12 10:40 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	keep_going	10/23/12 10:46 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/24/12 02:11 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/25/12 05:24 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	scaredsilly	10/25/12 10:27 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:00 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	keep_going	10/25/12 06:14 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/25/12 06:33 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/27/12 05:58 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	10/27/12 02:14 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:22 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:34 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/30/12 01:53 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	10/30/12 01:55 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	needgrace	10/30/12 03:18 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	10/30/12 04:58 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/31/12 06:19 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Soul.Searching	10/31/12 08:35 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/31/12 10:02 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/31/12 10:42 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Arsene	11/01/12 06:37 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	11/02/12 04:37 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	11/03/12 05:14 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Soul.Searching	11/03/12 05:37 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	11/03/12 07:00 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	11/04/12 04:34 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	Soul.Searching	11/04/12 04:48 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	11/04/12 06:43 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	labug	11/04/12 02:34 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	11/04/12 06:22 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	bustingout	11/04/12 07:13 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	BklynMom	11/04/12 08:04 PM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:07 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	mamabird	10/30/12 06:15 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:05 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/30/12 06:03 AM
Re: I think I see the picnic!	2chiquitos	10/19/12 04:58 AM

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