Through boundaries we train people how to treat us.
We cannot control what people will do.
We can only control what we do. What we accept.
Do not be afraid to express your thoughts.
But remember its her choice to cross your boundaries.
This is one of those situations where you can state how you do not like it and how it will affect your thoughts and actions towards her.
But do it in a quiet , calm and collect manor.
Then drop it.
As its out of your control.
Showing no emotions here and communicating is leading.
A long drawed out conversation with pleading and anger is weak.
If you cannot lead then wait to speak your boundary.
Because the choices of her actions can only be your choices.
Nothing more. Nothing less.
So be cool , calm and collect. And always be respectful.
Was it like that ?
Either way you stated your thoughts.
To answer your other question.
Yep.... go read this forum it goes back to 2001.
Its the same story over and over.
People are really not that complicated. Relationships are not that different. We all are basically the same. Read what worked and what did not. Adjust your thoughts to the desired outcome.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
