The crack in my perfect life...

[Sweetbriar]

I have another question about the WAS...do the kids play a part?

My girls dont want to talk to him right now because they are angry. Im not sure if this is helping or hurting the effort to get him home. I am trying to encourage them to keep an open mind but they dont want anything to do with him while he is with OW. H called D tonight and she begged him to come home and break up with her and he continuely said "NO, I will not leave her".

I dont want the kids to remain on silent terms with him and I do tell them that he is their dad no matter what. I cannot control what they say to him so my question is...when they beg and cry to him is it different than when the LBS does it or does it have the same effect? They are so sad and desperate for him to come home and my D was crying and telling him that she doesnt want to have a relationship with him unless he breaks it off with her...

I talked to her tonight about H doing what he is going to do now and that we cannot change his mind. I hope Im doing the right thing by them...