I'm glad the party was great and your YD had fun w/her friends.
Mlcers have such a wonderful way of screwing things up w/their childen. It really is sad that they are missing out on their children's lives and activities that can't be done over because they missed out. He will have to work out his relationship w/your daughters all by his lonesome.
A word of advice, you may not want to be discussing your h and his activities w/your friend's h that works w/him. You are putting him in an uncomfortable situation by asking him about your h. Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
