Backing off... W goes on her retreat this weekend...

I really want to do an exercise or two from the book together.. is this something I should bring up in passing or is this something totally on her??

Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12