What is he doing that you would like him not to be doing? What is he not doing that you would like him to do?
I can see a little of both sides here. Honestly not much has changed for me since H left in the way of looking after the kids, house or yard. His been gone for over a month and a half now and I can think of two things. One was a big branch broke off a tree. He would have sawed it up and gave it away for firewood. I broke off all the branches and threw them in the grass bin. I still have the main branch to deal with. The second is the kitchen tap is leaking. H would have replaced it but now I'm going to have to give it a go. Oh actually one more thing S8 bike wheel. H would have fixed that. Really that's the only things that I can think of that H would have done to help me out. Pretty darn sad really. So I really do get where your coming from. I loved my H so much though and we really did enjoy spending time together, or so it seemed.
On the other hand it seemed my H was always setting me up to fail. Nothing I did was good enough! It got to the point where it would take me hours to decide what to do and my choice would still be wrong. Even down to cooking dinner, I could cook for hours but then get abused because of the choice of spice I used or because I should have or shouldn't have added a certain ingredient. I remember him going off his head one night because the spice I used should have been used on beef instead of chicken, even though the spice was actually designed for chicken. It hurts when nothing you do is good enough or never appreciated. It killed my self confidence and self esteem, I actually didn't realize how much so, until after he left.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
