I am very fearful that H is acting as if to just get his own way...get four wheeler back at house and get art prints back in house.. manipulating me.
I want to ask him directly...but know this is a bad idea... am trying to think of way to ask that is not against db techniques...
Maybe asking if he really intends to come home and try to make things work with me...that's better than asking him if he is just pretending to go along with things I say to get his own way.
I am very confused...don't want to build up a big huge drama over this...but am frightened. I fear I am trying and he is just putting me on...
We talked tonight and he said he would give ice fishing with me and S a whirl...but then said how much better ice fishing in Minnesota was and how it wouldn't be the same and went on and on about friends and talking on radios and ice houses and how Alaska has none of that...then, spurted out a lot of anger saying something about he didn't want me anywhere near his folks...and he just called.
I asked him if it was ok for me to believe that he was coming home and we were going to go ice fishing and take down the Christmas tree together and work on things....
and he said...Yeah. Very quietly. Very Softly. But he said Yeah.
