Thanks for the advice. I'm not going to give him a key. He has not made any contact with me in about three weeks. Nothing. My Ds decided last Sunday to stop communicating with him. It was their decision, NOT mine. I didn't ask them to do it. My OD is upset from emails that she got from my H last month. YD finally had enough last weekend. She cant forgive him right now for missing some of her senior year things. So, H has been cut off by his family. The only other people that know about our situation, is our best friend couple. The H of the couple is my H best friend, plus they work together. I talked with the friend this past weekend and he hasn't heard hardly anything from my H. When he does, it's just business. My H has been out of the country for 3 weeks. He was emailing with YD up until she didn't respond to his last email. H hasn't emailed OD for a few weeks because OD (20) told him the truth about what he was doing to her life. He doesn't like the truth.