Chances are, her post created an emotion for Arsene. It’s up to US to determine how we handle our emotions. We can respond, probe, ask etc…I don’t think we get the opportunity to grow for OURSELVES by going down that path. The point I am trying to make is we do this work for OURSELVES. There comes a point when the focus is taken off of W. The real road to growth will start to happen when this shift in thinking takes place.
It sounds cliché but a lot of us come to this board very beat down and it critical to learn the importance of taking care of ourselves FIRST, it's a chance to save ourselves. I know you said it sounds like “a game” but hopefully you can see there's so much more behind what Arsese is talking about. It's not that simple bro, you don't just ask. It's not yes/no, it's not black/white. It's not that easy. If it was, then we probably wouldn't be here in the first place.
To sum it up, there's no guarantees in any of this but I can tell you this much. There's little chance towards reconciliation until the focus is taken off our W's. Make sense?
