I may be reading your thread wrong, but it sounds like he is trying to control and manipulate you by telling you he's going to research this program, re not enough training, etc. I would go w/my gut instinct and if you think it's something you want to try, go for it. Each of you may come away with a different perspective on the program...the questiion I have is this...who is planning to participate in the program...you or him?

This is your life and ultimate goal...


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.