This is how I look at it FY. Why bother with the wondering, worrying and over analyzing, it does no good. In my opinion it’s better to focus our energy elsewhere. I think it’s much healthier to make a mental note of her comment and then move forward with life.
You say a game? Yes, it’s a game IF you decide to worry, wonder, ask, etc…It’s actually NOT a game if you let things like this go.