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[Wendylon]

Thank you very much, Tumbling, for your thoughts. I really like them.

Between us girls it's perfectly acceptable to remind/suggest/offer to help. It demonstrates our caring for each other. But I've noticed it definitely emasculates H.

My H has said that I'm the greatest emasculator there is

My IC said that I naturally work on 14day cycles - I plan my time around 14 days including nights in - H is 48hrs - which is why he can't agree to do something as he doesn't really know how he is going to feel.

That's a really helpful way of looking at the difference between us.

I tried a calendar at the top of the stairs. It didn't have the slightest impact. What does is a shared electronic diary via gmail. We both write in it. He's gadget man so I worked out how to "turn him on" to planning.

My H is a gadget man too. I should try to capitalise on that.

Sometimes we went in separate cars too so that he could leave when he needed to.

I like that idea.

Thank you for stopping by, Tumbling!