Staying off the ride 2 - Leaning Back

[Wendylon]

Hi Tumbling,

A question to Wendylon, why do you think he will go darker after our successful evening?

From following your sitch so far, I've gathered that your H is scared and cautious. It might just be my mind-reading but that's the sense I get through your posts about him. I somehow figure that the contact you had the other night will go a long way with him and that he may not need any more for a while in the same way that a rich meal keeps you satiated for a bit. Also, he might not want to get your hopes up if he's confused therefore would go dim for a bit. Just me guessing...

Sunday I was too busy to think about the sitch

Perfect!

He replied "morning x" I didn't ansa.

Perfect again!

Today, I really want him to call and make another date (if I want this - I'm not done am I?)

You are definitely not done! Sometimes I think you think you might be, but your words and actions show me that you're NOT DONE.

I know I have to remain leaning back and let him come to me.

You're right.

But once again I doubt he's going to do it.

That's what makes it so difficult to do but it gives you the best chance of things working long term while you're detaching at the same time.

And I'm busy this weekend - girlfriend coming over Sat early evening for dinner, then we are going to the theatre and she's staying the night.

That all sounds great.

Guess I need to take a chill pill!

Let me know if you find one that works.

And prepare my CV and cover letter for that job I saw last week

Yes! Great plan.

Take care, Tumbling.