Oh... and this is the ONLY time that you tell her this, except for the boundary, which she may need to be reminded of many times.

And you enforce the boundary. The boundary will only serve you well if you enforce it. Don't do this unless you are ready to do that. YOu don't want to be the boy who cried wolf.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce