I then went through my correspondence and FB and a few minutes ago, obviously after her gig tonight, W changed her status to:
"Why do we have to lose before realizing the value/price of a being/existence/presence/someone?" (translated using online translators).
This is all very emotionally taxing. I wish that if W had something to say, she just came out and said it. I don't know if I'll be able to sleep tonight.
Instead of laying awake at night, why not just ask her what this means?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl