I hope and pray that we will be well taken care of. I dont think that any judge will agree with what he has done.
Is your state "no fault"? I'm just asking because if it is then there isn't any sense in trying to demonize your H to the court, because it won't factor into the decision and it may create a lot of animosity between you and H.
Sorry to hear you have to involve lawyers, that rarely works out for anyone but the lawyers.
