H is definitely still very distant. We talked about his trip a little. We talked about his brother. I talked about being solution focused...not dredging up past and not going over and over our problems...but looking for solutions to them instead....less conflict in our marriage that way...then we talked about new chair we bought...where it is going to go...am going to switch furniture around to take H's suggestion before he gets home...sort of a welcome home gesture...sure hope he will come home ...I have until the 27th of this month to db from a distance..he is at work until then...then hopefully, he will come home. Haven't asked or even mentioned him coming home directly, but did ask him if it would be convenient to stop at best buy on his way home and look for some software to eliminate spam from computer...he said it's right by Sam's Club...which meant in H speak...yes it's convenient... He did not say...I am not coming home...that's a positive, right? Of course, he didn't say I am coming home either...so I may be reading way too much into all of this...
it's almost 10:OO Alaskan time...gotta run...need to get up early tomorrow and work....hugs to all....
I can't believe it..but I think I really am PIECING again...
We can act as if things are ok between us...perhaps...and perhaps they will be again...
