Yesterday was very emotional and tuff. Doing much better today so far. Going to C tonight. Will see what she suggests.
Wife has moved most of her clothes and bathroom things out. Sure is strange to look in to the closet and only see my clothes. She did go shopping for us last night and stuck around for dinner. Said that if it is ok she wants to stop and check on us in the evenings. It is nice to see her but sort of strange when she said that coming to the house makes her sick. Is this normal and is this a good sign?? I am sure it to see the kids.
I did ask her to remove her name from our accounts and to start her own. She agreeded, I hope that was a smart move. But if she wants to be free and independent then she needs to spend her money only. I told her that I would leave her on my health insurance, car insurance, and that i would continue to pay her car payment. She does not make enough to supply these needs yet. I am really trying to be the best friend anyone could have through this. But I do want to be careful and not be her sugar daddy and using this for expectations or false hopes.
