Originally Posted By: eyesopen
AS is 100% right on. As hard as it is too not think about OM, I think you need to get him out of your head. Right now for whatever reason you are looking like the best man. Build on that.


I've pretty much tried to stop being so concerned with OM. Since he moves across the country in 2 weeks it may become slightly less of an issue.

If we reconcile, I'll bring up the vague conversation of trust and "other people." We've been down rocky roads before, and I'm not oblivious to the fact that she has a pattern of behavior. There's trust issues that will have to be worked through.

In the mean time, I'll continue with my same DB behaviors. They seem to be working thus far.

Thanks for posting smile

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done