Sweetbriar, You did the right thing by stepping in when he was in the process of demonizing you. He should never do this in front of his children. Of course he and the ow haven't thought about the child support that he will be required to pay for the new baby. He's not thought far enough ahead to see just how much his wallent will be impacted w/a divorce.
Seek the counsel of a good lawyer and do it as soon as possible. You need to ensure that you and your children are well taken care of.
Stay NC w/this man because he's going to continue to demonize you until he's got you and everyone else convinced that you are crazy and a danger to him and his family. No more conversations about the relationship. If you happen to get caught in another conversation and when it starts to go south, walk away. You are fighting against a lust crazed man right now and you will only lose. Choose your battles and you want to make sure you are well versed in what you are entitled to.
There's nothing you can do to bring him back and you need to let him go. Allow God to have this problem and work on him. Keep the focus on you and your family...that's what is important right now.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
