Ride the wave eyesopen. Don't encourage or support the D but don't try and control her. As long as you make her aware that this is not the path you want to follow then you have stated your wants/needs. This may be a battle she's fighting inside. She's Jupiter. Stay away from the hurricanes. Don't let that paper (D) take too much of eyesopen's focus away from the journey.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017