Yes wife is pushing it. I have asked to her to hold off, but to no avail. She does not like the townhouse she is renting and wants to find a place to buy.
I understand. I have a feeling my W is going to end up pushing for D prematurely because of her financial situation. I prepared a spreadsheet for her before she left showing her how difficult it was going to be, but the reality of it is just now hitting her. I suspect she'll see D as her financial bonanza (since I'll have to pay her for half our house). AS you say, D is a piece of paper, it doesn't close the door on reconciliation. I'm glad you can see that
