Yes wife is pushing it. I have asked to her to hold off, but to no avail. She does not like the townhouse she is renting and wants to find a place to buy. I think most of us on this board know that a divorce doesn't create happiness, but my w thinks it will. Quite frankly I can't keep trying to stall it. Not sure if I want to either. It is time for her to make her own choices, mistakes, and hopefully triumphs.

It is a piece of paper and does nothing to severe the real connection. I also feel like once it is filed it will be one less thing to focus on. I have been so consumed by it that I have lost focus of what really matters, my children and becoming a better man and father.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on