I urge you to seek legal counsel and not share what you have learned. Your h has already advised you that he has seen an attorney and knows what the bottom line will be when it comes to finances, etc. You can't rely on him to be honest w/you. Do the research so that you know what your rights are. If you don't want to do this, then google the law for your state. Knowledge is power.
Many of the comments that he has shared w/you are mlc lingo and come from the book of "script". Believe nothing he says and only half of what he does. I'm glad you advised him that you are doing certain things for you and that you feel better about it. Continue to make changes and they have to become permanent and they have to be for you, not him.
One thing, why does he have to research the training and determine whether it is enough for you? If this is a career field that you are interested in, you need to be the one to research it and make sure it is right for you. Your h, may appear to be helping you, but it comes across as controlling you and your future.
Keep your expectations at zero and do not rely on this man to help you when he really starts rolling down hill in mlc. As long as you are going along w/his program the way he wants, he will be nice. However, the minute you start to question his authority or knowledge, the monster will come home to roost.
Today is a new day...start your google searches and go from there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
