In addition to advice on the last text I just received this one:

"Don't mean to keep blowing up your phone and you've made it clear you don't want to talk to me, so I'm sorry, but one more thing. Do you think there is any chance the rest of my things might be ready by Friday? I'm off work that day & trying to plan it out. If not that's totally fine too, just curious. Thanks."

Denver, Bond, anyone else. I really need some advice here. I feel so bad being cold and unresponsive. Should I say anything besides yes or no? I so much want to just say, "I DO want to talk to you and tell you all about all the great things that I have been doing and how much I love you and how I want you to come home." Obviously I am not going to do that but this is killing me. I hate seeing her hurt like this, despite what she is doing. I feel like I am pushing her further away, if that is even possible. HELP!!!!


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012