I don't have much to add that the others haven't already said, but I do sympathize with your plight, as I am in a similar situation with my husband. We are also still in the same house and bed... It's very confusing, isn't it?
According to most of what I've read or heard (one story even from a friend who decided to divorce), once the person decides they want out, they often leave the marital bed! So, if they can still go to sleep next to you, what does that mean? For me, it's Hope.
Hope that he will change his mind and decide that he DOES love me after all, and that he was confused or lost or something... Hope that we can reconcile our marriage, making it stronger than ever, and be happy again.
I wish you the same Hope.
-FH
Me: 36 H: 42 M: 13.5 T: 15 No kids; 3 cats IDLY: Mid-Jul 2012 I Give In: Early Oct 2012
