Is it normal for your STBXH to say he still loves you but doesnt want to be married? I guess thats kinda the same things as I love you but not in love with you??
Yup...ILYBINILWY. 180's help you strip away all the extraneous baggage, I think. It helps get rid of the "do I want you here because I am scared to be alone?" the "how do I do this?" etc. Then you get down to the nitty gritty-love. If it is still there, you dig in and really begin the long haul. If it all comes back around you are ready to start again
If it doesn't, then you have a solid foundation to continue on.
