She invited me to spend a couple of hours on halloween with her(and family) and S.

I agreed. Which is not giving her space to find out what she wants, but I have to put my time with S first.

Will journal a bit later on.

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.