Why is this "place" called divorce busting when mostly it is divorcing / divorced and stuck / bitter and stuck?
I am read, read, reading but it just seems to me that I need to go ahead and get divorced since there is no hope...
you are not reading the pages that have the happy endings b/c a lot of folks are here IN THE TRENCHES so if you want the happy endings, go to the success stories. Or come back in a year or two and see who is out of the trenches.
Even those of us who could "leave", still post here to help those in the trenches.
But I daresay a lot of the "victorious" ones go and have happy lives so we don't post here anymore. Thus there is some "natural selection" going on that makes it look worse than it is. Most, but not all, of those who post here are NOT happy.
Not sure if that answers your question b/c I'm not sure what your point or goal really was...I guess venting?
So, try other forums here.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
