CV, a very thought-provoking thread. I find many similarities in our sitches. What I think I heard resembles many of our conversations. Sorry if I am too blunt... I only mention it because I used to do the same thing (right down to the parent handbook thing) and even backslide now... Perhaps leading with, "You were late" was not a good idea. Peace, Goldeylox
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
