Angel, I too, have been called a doormat. It was only when I established boundaries, and stuck to them, that things improved. I found DB website 4 years ago, after going on Retro twice. I'm one of those, a WAW. Or I was, anyway. I don't recognize any of the old timers who got me through the first round, but I suspect I will find common ground with many here in Piecing. Good luck with the new mattress! Goldey
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots