Angel, I too, have been called a doormat. It was only when I established boundaries, and stuck to them, that things improved.
I found DB website 4 years ago, after going on Retro twice.
I'm one of those, a WAW. Or I was, anyway. I don't recognize any of the old timers who got me through the first round, but I suspect I will find common ground with many here in Piecing.
Good luck with the new mattress!
Goldey


Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse
S:22, S:19, D:16
Filed Oct 08, dismissed
Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
Now Piecing
alter persona: SuperBoots