working very hard at detaching but sometimes it feels as if i am giving up. I am keeping very busy and that helps...sons hockey coach etc, work, etc but some days my W calls me 2-3 times per day about logistical stuff or just to check in. It can be confusing sometimes.My friends in AA all advise to be loving, patience, kind but let go at the same time.
me-49 w-40 s-8 living seperately but same house since Jun 2012
