Just a quick update. W came back from the pool with D8 and we had a pleasant family dinner. Once d8 was in bed, I walked W to the gate to let her out. She asked me for some advice on how to act in a situation with one of her gigs (Owners left the country for a month telling her to keep going in every Saturday but left no instructions to staff about payment - now her musicians don't want to go in because they didn't get paid last time). I didn't really offer advice but I told her to follow her instinct and do what "she thought was the right thing to do" with a smile.
She then smiled and said:"By the way, thank you for the discussion this morning. It helped me a lot". I told her I thought I talked too much and she said: "No, not this time. It was really helpful. Thanks you so much."
I didn't ask for an explanation as I didn't think she was offering it but I simply said I was glad I could help. Just my intuition, but I think I'd have said "oh thanks. I'd appreciate it if you'd tell me when I talk too much b/c it's something I'm working on & can use the feedback..."
Then she left on foot to meet her lift so I suspect OM was picking her up somewhere, again with the self inflicted pain...
but I'm not sure as she referred to it as "these guys are on the way".
OMG ...Arsene, learn from this^^^.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
