(Notice how the more you've pulled away and not allowed her to hurt you so much she is suddenly playing the I want to be friends card? That's because she's losing her punching bag and wants it back. I don't think for a minute she genuinely wants to be friends. She gets off on hurting you; she's shown that a billion times).
Wow Antonia. This is so very true. I've noticed a BIG difference the more I pull away. Just last night she sent home a pie with S17 and told him to make sure he cuts it so "your father" can have a piece. This boggles the sh!t out of me. She is definitely being nice. She seems to be trying really hard, but the wedding bells are getting closer.
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Treat her like she's a business associate only.
Haha! She doesn't even get that. I am completely dark. No contact at all in 5 months with the exception of replying to her text a few weeks back when she reminded me that KISS was on David Letterman. That REALLY still boggles the sh!t out of me.
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Let her get married. Let her crash and burn.
This is what scares me. If she gets married, there is not even a glimmer of hope. If there wasn't OM, I think things would be a little different....maybe A LOT different. I think I could wait for her. With a wedding happening next Summer, I feel like I have a deadline.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
