Originally Posted By: Sad_but_happy


For me, unless there is constant reasonable attention from the cheating spouse, in order to make me feel secure for a long time, it was doomed to fail.

They can't leave a question in your mind that they want you and only you. Security is just as important as trust. If not more important.

I will accept no less.


I actually DO agree with ALL of the above SBH. I still look forward to hearing what happened with you and your M over the past 6 months.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce