Still together but trying to save this

[Denver_2010]

There is no guarantee that what we are telling you will work. In fact, the odds are probably not good. That is reality. DB worked for me, and I happen to think that it gives you the best chance.

I know, I have accepted that. The most frustrating thing is that everything that she supposedly had issue with was such a misconception that she carried with her because she didn't confront or ask me about. This whole thing would have been so fixable and quite frankly still is. I know that is not the reason to take any action. Just venting I guess. I can air out my frustrations to you all I guess. Most days I am holding it together and detaching without much issue. Today is just a bad one for me I guess. I just needed some support. Thank you.

Your situation is not unique from others here. Most WAS's had misconceptions about the LBS that could have been fixed with the proper tools.

You are not going to be able to convince her of that right now. It's not going to happen until OM is out of the picture and she has taken some time to truly think about the situation.

The longer you put off an actual D, the better chance that you have of that happening.

I wouldn't respond to that last text that you got from her. Go dark on her now. Let's give it two weeks and see what happens. Then reassess.

In that time, GAL and try to find some happiness man. I know that it's hard. But you have to figure out how to do it on it your own right now.